Play Munch 酒吧派對 (22 April 2015)

I have been really busy but I finally had the chance to take a break and I had some kinky fun tonight at a play munch which's held in a bar (closed curtains). I put on my kimono and tied several people - some of them were really eager to be tied by me as they had never been tied before. I tied a guy blindfolded - this time apart from a gote, I did some ties on his legs, also with a blindfold and it's a really good practice experience for me. I also tied several other people - something special to recap:

I tied S. She's not very flexible - which's fine. I hate it when people say that in order to be a good rope bottom, you need to be fit/skinny/small/flexible. I don't agree with it - as long as that person has a passion for ropes, and is eager to be in my ropes, I am happy to tie him/her (or other gender). I have tied people of all sizes and flexibility - when you tie, you don't just tie a gote on flexible people who can do a gote position. You tie *the person*. You do different ties to suit that person. We are all different and it's where the beauty truly lies. I tied S in a modified gote position and it's really fun to be able to improvise - I did a lot of improvisation today.

I also tied N. He's sadomasochistic, sometimes Dominant. It's funny because I am submissive. But in our rope scene, I am the one tying and it seems that our roles are switched. I tied a teppou with finger ties on him, a futomono and opened his legs wide and tied his legs to his back - basically he's completely restrained. We then had some more fun - I started by dripping candle wax on him - so as to get his skill more sensitive. Then I used the pinwheel on him - on his inner thigh and the bottom of his feet. It's excruciating for him as it's super sensitive. When he thought it's bad enough - I pulled out the sadistick and started working on his inner thigh and bottom of his feet. At the end of our scene, I said I would give him 20 more by the sadistick, and I ended up stopping at 19 and repeating 19-19-19-19-19 for like forever. I was carefully reading his emotions, his reactions, his facial expressions - to push him, to feel him, to see how much further I can go with him. It's a very exciting moment for me and I know that he would curse me for a few days (there are bruises on his inner thigh - it hurt quite a bit)

It's a really fun night and I really enjoyed introducing several newbies to ropes!

Photos of S are below:

最近十分忙碌，但今晚終於有時間到了一個酒吧的派對。我穿上和服，開始綁了幾位朋友－他們許多都沒有試過緊縛，十分期待第一次被緊縛。

首先，我再次蒙眼（蒙上自己的眼）來綁一位朋友，今次不只是綁上身，我還嘗試以觸覺來綁他的下身，是一個十分好的練習經驗。

另外我綁了幾位朋友，但以下是比較特別的：

我綁了S，她不是很柔軟。其實，我不同意別人說被綁的一定要柔軟、瘦、等等。緊縛是一種熱誠，只要他／她對繩有興趣，願意投入，我就很樂意綁他／她，我從來亦不介意體型／重量／柔軟／高矮等，因為我們綁的是人，每個人都不同，緊縛的感覺和經驗亦不同，這就是緊縛美麗之處。我綁S的時候，特意改變了後手綁的綁法，是用前後手，因為她不能把雙手都放在背後－但我認為還是十分好的綁法（我今晚都是憑感覺綁的）

我亦綁了N。他是一個支配者／虐待者／被虐待者，有趣的是，我是一個被支配者，但我們就像身份調轉一樣，我來綁他－我綁了個TEPPOU（上手和後手綁），然後在把他的腳屈著，再連接到他的上身，令他動彈不得）然後我開始在他大腿內側滴蠟，再用轉輪來令他的皮膚十分敏感，然後最後我拿了一支彈彈棍（很痛的），在他的大腿內側留了不少美好回憶哈哈。綁和玩的時候，我不斷看他的面容、反應、看他還可以受多少、看他還想要多少，對我來說是十分刺激的。

真的很享受今晚，可以有機會給予幾位新手第一次緊縛經驗：）

以下是S的相片。