Ropes at March Party by Kinky Hong Kong 三月派對－與兩位朋友的緊縛經驗(28 March 2015)

I am a submissive. Despite the fact that I do ropes and tie a lot, I still identify myself as a submissive. People might associate "tying" with "topping" or "dominating" but I do not agree. When I tie someone up, I simply want to get close to them. To caress them. To connect with them. To make them happy. I do not do torture ties for the sake of torturing people - I do it only because my friends enjoy being tortured. So fundamentally speaking - I am still thinking from the perspective of a submissive - I just want people around me to be happy - and that in turn, would make me happy.

But when I go to the parties held by Kinky Hong Kong, I don't really play a lot now (as a submissive). I don't do impact play anymore - anyone can hit me really hard. Anyone can do mean things to me - but it's the mental aspect that's lacking in a lot of scenes and I do not enjoy playing with people I cannot connect well with. So when I go to parties now, I usually do ropes with my friends.

Yesterday, I tied up two wonderful girls. :)

I tied @Nai first. We were just chatting and discussing the new suspension ring and swivel that I got. Not many people can take spinning and swinging when up in the air. It's even harder to take when the person's suspended inverted. I personally can take it but I do not enjoy it as I have motion sickness very easily. But @Nai is a very playful girl and she's really curious to know what it would be like. So we tried it out by doing an inverted suspension with hip harness. She looked amazing up in the air - I enjoyed spinning her, and stopping her, and holding her steady in my embrace, and giving her the caress that she deserves.

我是一個被支配者，雖然我做許多的緊縛，但我的目的不是去控制別人／給他們痛楚，我愛緊縛，是因為我想有一個機會深層次地認識一個人－去接近他們，撫摸，聯繫，和讓他們感到快樂－而從他們的快樂我亦從中得到快樂。

我現在去BDSM派對，不常常被其他人支配，主要因為我只跟我喜歡和可以聯繫到的人一起玩。任何人都可以打我，但BDSM其中十分重要的完素是心靈上的溝通，所以現在在派對，我還是喜歡跟朋友們做緊縛。

昨天，我去了一個派對，綁起了兩位女性朋友。

我先綁Nai。我們初初只是在討論我會轉動的吊環，許多人都不喜歡被轉，他們都怕會暈倒，特別是倒吊的時候。但Nai是一個十分貪玩的女孩，很想去試試在空中吊起轉動，於是我們就即興做了個倒吊。

Ropes 緊縛者: subay

Model 被綁者: Nai

Photography 攝影: VelmaVoluptuary

Then I had some rope fun with @V. We planned a bit ahead for the scene. I decided to go for the sensual way. It's the first time that I tied her so I wanted her to feel my ropes and be comfortable first. I went for a gote, and proceeded to tie her hair, and mouth, and finally her eyes. We also did a partial suspension/stretchy ties I enjoyed how much she enjoyed being ropes - when she's completely in my arms, led by me, feeling everything that I gave her - that's a really beautiful gift.

然後我就綁了V。我們一早已經有計劃一起做些緊縛。我最後決定今次用比較溫柔的方法，因為昨天是我第一次綁她，我希望可以慢慢認識她的身體，讓她的身體感受我的繩。我先做個後手綁，然後再綁她的頭髮，口，最後是眼睛，我們亦做了些半吊和比較需要柔軟度的綁法。我十分喜歡她陶醉的樣子，是美麗的一刻。