Ropey Easter Weekend 復活節與緊縛 :)

Happy Easter everyone :)

First, apologies if I haven't replied to your messages on Fetlife/HKBDSMC/Facebook/Gmail etc. I have been super busy (haven't been around a laptop for around 1-2 weeks now) as I have been having some kinky fun :D

復活節快樂！

首先，我最近因為比較忙，所以回覆會比較慢！因為時間關係，以下用中文寫的會比較簡短，有興趣請閱讀英文版哈哈。

以下是我在復活節做過的：P

Midnight Ropes with @luis1786

@Luis1786 and I met on Fetlife. We exchanged several messages and he wanted to practice tying with me. I am often willing to be the practice bottom. Although I am not super bendy flexible, I think one thing good about practising on me is that I can give very constructive feedback and I enjoy communication. As I have a bit of rope experience as a rope top, I can often tell him/her concretely where the problem is (tension/wrap placement/wrong fiction etc)

So we met for a few times to have some rope fun. He's not the most experienced at ropes. I remember myself saying that I would only enjoy being tied by experienced rope tops. But actually - not always. I had such a good time being tied by him. I could see/feel/sense/hear a lot of mistakes - but I decided to stay silent and let the ropes caress me. The thing is - it's not really about the ropes - he might be slow, he might make mistakes, do the wrong knot, go to high/low - yet more important is how he uses his ropes to caress me, to torture me, to give me feelings, to build a connection. He's very good at controlling a rope bottom and it's something I definitely want to learn from him. While he takes his time to tie, he always holds my hair tight to control my movement - to force me to my kneels, to push me down, to do whatever he wishes me to do. I was such a happy girl enjoying the happy moments.

I guess most people now focus too much on the technical side of kinbaku - yes, being safe is important, and doing the tie right etc is definitely good - but in kinbaku, we don't tie objects, we tie persons - persons with feelings. Kinbaku is almost like sex - it's intimate, you do it with people you trust and love.

And our rope session slowly developed into something else...some more play...:P (shhhhh)

我跟luis1786是在Fetlife認識的，他跟我說想練習緊縛，於是他來香港時我們就一起在凌晨時段玩／練習。我平時不介意做練習對象，雖然我不要超級柔軟，但因為我有綁人的經驗，所以我被綁的時候可以給予綁我的人一些意見，可以清楚跟他們說甚麼好／不好。

他不是很有經驗，我一直以為我不會享受被不是很有經驗的人綁，但我錯了，今次跟他的經驗是很不同的。他一直綁我，我都感覺到、聽到、看到問題／錯誤，但因為還是安全的，我就繼續靜靜地讓他試／練習（最後我有給他意見），但我想說的是，被他綁是很有感覺的，他很善於控制他綁的人，當他在想怎樣繼續綁的是候，他總會拉著我的頭髮，控制著我，把我推到地下，把我放到他希望的位置等，他會用繩來撫摸我，來虐待我。這讓我想起－其實緊縛不是由繩開始，是由一個眼神，撫摸，兩者同步的呼吸－對，就是那種無型的聯繫，張力。

Rope Intensive with @Nuidetokyo

As @Nuitdetokyo is staying in Hong Kong for Easter, I have decided to go bug him again :P We talked about a rope intensive as I am going to join a kinbaku study group in Tokyo in late June with some rope masters including Osada Steve, Yukimura Haruki and Nawashi Kanna. So to prepare for my first official/formal rope education in Japan, I thought it would be good to learn from @Nuitdetokyo as he's been tying in Japan for 10 years.

We mainly focused on the takate-kote and we looked at many important details. Every time someone goes to Japan, it's very likely that he will be asked to tie a takate-kote - it's just a very good way to see how a person ties and his experience and his skills. I spent a lot of time practising the tension of my ropes - it's a bit of a challenge for me. I usually don't tie super tight due to my models preference but in the session, I had to learn to increase the tension of my ropes so it took me a bit of time to adjust to it. Another challenge is the speed. I had to do a 3-rope takate kote in 4.5 minutes and so far my record is around 5.5 minutes.

That being said - to prepare for my rope education, I am now looking for more practice bottoms, preferably girls (I tie people of all genders, but as in Japan, the models are usually female, so I have to practice tying girls first) :D Give me a shout if interested!

Just a picture of a takate kote done in 5.5 minutes :P Its not perfect...but...well it's my first time tying so fast!

去準備6月尾在日本東京跟繩師（長田流、雪村春樹等）學習緊縛，我就跟了Nuitdetokyo學習（因為他有在日木緊縛的經驗），我們整天主要練習高手小手後手縛，雖然你見到很多人都在做後手縛，但其實要做一個完美的後手縛是十分困難的，很多細節是在相片看不到的。我那天主要練習繩的張力，和練習要在4分半鐘做好一個3條繩的後手縛。以下是一張相片（不是很完美，但用了5分半，差不到吧，始終第一次哈哈）

Rope 緊縛者: subay
Model 被綁者: fufu

Photoshoot with two models

@Nuitdetokyo has been working on his portfolio and he wants to do some photoshoots with Hong Kong as the theme. I have been helping him with models and photographers (as there are quite a few photographers who contact me on Facebook). So we did some simple photoshoots to get to know the models.

There isn't a lot to say about the photoshoot but there's one thing special - we worked with a girl model. She's completely new to shibari and we did a simple side suspension (yoko zuri). She asked us to let her down almost immediately as she's not used to the feeling of suspension. Interestingly, the second time we did it, again a side suspension, after taking the pics, she asked to stay in the air for longer. It's really interesting to see a newbie explore shibari and her reactions :P

We are still looking for professional/semi-professional models who are willing to be tied.
1. Nudity (frontal or complete) with some explicitness (strictly no sex)
2. Girls (prefer girls with boooooobs!)
3. Paid photoshoot (market price)
4. Rope experience preferred
5. Fetish/sexy wardrobe welcome
6. No commercial use - just for an online portfolio
7. Body size/shape/nationality/ink etc flexible

Send me a message if interested!

Email: subay.annie.hk@gmail.com
Facebook: Subay Kinbaku
Wechat: fishie_ay

復活節還做了幾個緊縛攝影，有興趣的模特兒可以聯絡我。要求：
1. 願意被綁
2. 裸露（沒有性行為，不需要擔心）
3. 價錢跟市場價格
4. 最好有緊縛的經驗
5. 最好有自己的衣服
6. 相片不是商業的，是一位繩師想做一個portfolio
7. 身材／國藉等等沒有特別要求
8. 這個攝影的繩師不是我，是一位很有名的法國（在日本有10年緊縛經驗）的繩師，但我可以在場做翻譯和協助

有興趣在Email/Facebook/wechat 聯絡我：）

More ropes...

Got tied during Easter - crotch rope - crotch rope attached to the suspension point - ouch. 

That's all I wanna say :P haha.

復活節的其他時間，我都沒有綁很多人，不斷的被綁，其中的是股繩，股繩連接著天花板的吊環，輕輕地向上拉一拉，很痛，很幸福：P