HKBDSMC March Rope Gathering 3月份HKBDSMC緊縛聚會 20 March 2015

中文版在下面 Chinese version below


(from now on, I will try to write in both languages so that both the Western and the local community can understand my posts and my sharing)


First, thank you for Eddie's effort in organising a rope gathering today and everyone who helped out. :)


This is the second HKBDSMC event that I attend, first one being the rope performance by Nawakiri Shin. Last time, I didn't have much time to talk to the attendees. Thanks to everyone who approached me to introduce themselves.


So the night started by Eddie introducing the attendees. There were around 30 attendees - definitely a bit bigger than most events hosted by Fetlife Hong Kong group. Some people brought some toys/ropes/books to share with everyone and I could see that people had fun meeting new friends and chatting (with food and drinks hehe). I could see that most people were quite shy, so the first half of the night was pretty quiet and slow. There were a few people who started tying for a bit but most people were mostly just chatting and watching.


I was curious as to how Eddie tied his gote as everyone has a different style so he kindly showed me his tie. The gote I always do is the one inspired by Akechi Denki and adopted by Osada Steve and Hajime Kinoko. It's interesting to see a different style. Yoghurt also kindly let me do a hair tie on her - with her hair pulled to the back and tied to a hip harness with crotch rope hehe.


Later that night, Nuitdetokyo dropped by for a visit. We chatted a bit about ropes and then we did some ropes together. Usually, when we do ropes, we stay on the floor but for his comfort, he decided to tie me on some sofa chairs. He started with a gote, and then he tied my legs to my waist, and then worked on a hair tie and finally gagged and blindfolded me with ropes. When I get tied, what I value the most is the connection and the feelings and I was completely rope drunk. He hit me once, and stopped (I wonder why...lol as I thought he would continue a I enjoy pain haha) and then he untied me. A lot of people were sitting around to observe and watch and I think it's interesting that people get to see the other side of rope bondage/shibari - it's not only about the tying and the pattern - but more importantly, what you achieve with it. Rope is like an extension of one's arm - to caress a body, to bring out a person's raw feelings and sensations.


After that, Eddie wanted his partner, Yoghurt, to experience Nuidetokyo's ropes so he tied a 2-rope teppou on her. He also quickly showed everyone how to do a hishi gote (a very decorative tie that a lot of people like) and a strappado.


After he left, I decided to do some tying and Ken volunteered (so many people were so shy and never approached me!!!). I always enjoy tying different people, and practising tying people of different sizes. A lot of people ask me what the difference is between tying a male and a female. I would say that a lot of times, it's not the gender that matters - we are all different individuals, and the difference lies in the connection between the two people, not so much the body shape or gender. So I did a gote on Ken, and then proceeded to tie his legs and did something like an ebi tie. It's fun tying without conforming to the "traditional ties" actually - I just tied according to my flow and my feelings at that time. I was really happy to see that he enjoyed being tied by me :)


Rope work: subay

Model: Ken

Photographer: subay

After tying Ken, it's time to pack and I had a good chat with the attendees. Eddie and I are planning to host more rope gatherings in the future - so that people can learn, practice and just have some rope fun! Stay tuned everyone!



（我會嘗試用中文和英文來寫將來的分享，希望外國及香港的朋友都有機會閱讀我的文章）


首先，多謝大人籌備今日的聚會，以及工作人員的幫助：）


今次是我第二次出席HKBDSMC的聚會，第一次是去小林的表演，上一次沒有機會認識大家，多謝今日主動來認識我的朋友，很開心認識到新朋友。


在聚會的開始，大人先介紹所有出席的朋友。今日大概有30位朋友出席，比起FETLIFE的活動是大型一點。有些朋友帶來繩，書籍，玩具，工具等分享，一開始大家主要在談天，見到大部份人都比較內向，可能是未認識大家，所以一開始都比較靜，只有數位朋友開始拿起繩練習／綁，其他人主要在觀看。


我對大人如何綁後手縛很有興趣，因為每個人都有不同的風格，所以大人綁了一次給我看。我的後手縛是源自明智伝鬼的後手縛，亦是長田流及一鬼等繩師用的後手縛，大人的後手縛是有點不同的，很有趣見到不同的綁法。乳酪之後讓我綁她的頭髮，我將她的頭髮綁好後拉到後面連著股繩（哈哈我就是很喜歡這些比較有感覺的綁法）


然後，我一位法國朋友（在日本綁繩綁了10多年了，認識很多有名的繩師） Nuitdetokyo來了聚會探訪，我們分享了一些關於緊縛的知識，然後他開始綁我。平常我們會在地上做緊縛的，但因為地板太硬，他說要在椅子上哈哈。他先在我身上做個後手縛，然後把我的腳綁起，再連接我的腰，最後綁了我的頭髮，再用繩把我口和眼都綁著。當我被綁時，我十分著重感覺和兩人之間的聯繫，綁著的不只是我的身軀，還有我的心靈。當我被綁時，附近應該有其他人在觀看，我相信大家都享受見到兩人之後做緊縛時的聯繫，是十分親默的－這是日本緊縛十分重要的一環 －緊縛不只是關於綁出來的樣子，繩像是人的手，用繩可以去撫摸身體，帶出最真的感覺。


大人之後希望乳酪可以感受被Nuitdetokyo綁起，所以他做了一個teppou的綁法（我不知道中文的名子是甚麼，看參考圖片），然後他亦在我身上很快地講解了怎樣綁鑽石型的後手縛和後直手縛。


參考圖片：

他走了之後，我決定做些緊縛，而Ken主動來給我綁哈哈。我希望綁不同的人，許多人問我綁男和綁女有其麼分別－其實我覺得綁每一佪人都不同，而性別，體型等等不是重點，而是你綁的人是個怎樣的人，緊縛不是公式化的，應該就每一個的不同來做不同的綁法。我綁Ken時，首先綁了個後手縛，然後再做個雙腿曲膝並縛，再將腳和上身連接了一起。我綁時主要是跟我當時的感覺和他的舒適度來綁，其實這樣綁是最開心的，發揮自己的創造力。


緊縛者：subay

被綁者：Ken

攝影：subay

綁完之後就是時間收拾及離開。大人和我以後可能會合作籌備更多關於緊縛的活動，希望更多人可以認識緊縛，練習，和分享。密切留意最新消息﹗



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